I was wondering...
Do we effect men in the same way they effect us?
Let me give two examples
a) I was in the grocery store on Saturday and I had a strong craving for cola to go with my lunch. I went to grab a Diet Coke out of the little fridge and I thought to myself, “Why am I getting Diet Coke and not Pepsi? I’m not dating my EX anymore… Do I even know which I like better?”.
A small bit of history… my EX and his whole family SWORE by Coke. They could go give you an entire history on the company and it’s product. He loved Coke so I loved Coke. TWO years later, I am STILL picking Coke over Pepsi!
b) I was in the movie theatre today and no longer wanted my gum. I found a wrapper to spit it in and then tossed it on the floor. I thought to myself, if my Novio was here he’d be annoyed I threw it on the floor. Don’t get my wrong, I’m a litterbug!! That’s what the employees are paid to do after the movie! It’s not as if I stuck it underneath my chair!
So my point here is, did my ex take anything like this away from our relationship? These are just two examples, I could probably give you eight just off the top of my head. I just want to know if I touched the men in my life in little neurotic ways like they have mine?